"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Is it ever okay to bargin or applogize with a chick?

Weezy

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Question:

Most of the sh1t I see on here is dudes who are completely owned by there chicks, needy, clingy, etc continuing to get owned etc.

What if you lose a chick because you flat out treated her like sh1t and you regret the hell out of it. If basically when you look back, you were so selfish in the relationship that she really had no choice but to leave?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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SchoolBoy

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Weezy said:
Question:

Most of the sh1t I see on here is dudes who are completely owned by there chicks, needy, clingy, etc continuing to get owned etc.

What if you lose a chick because you flat out treated her like sh1t and you regret the hell out of it. If basically when you look back, you were so selfish in the relationship that she really had no choice but to leave?
That's why you can't be a complete jerk or a complete AFC. There has to be a balance between the two.

Don't treat a woman like sh1t unless they have BPD and like it that way. But don't treat a woman like a princess either.

You can't "Bargain" with women because they are not logical creatures. They make decisions based on emotions.

Regarding apologizing, keep it minimal and make sure you only apologize when you know that you are in the wrong 100%.
 

fertileTurtle

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Act on your conscience. If you feel like you should apologize, as long as you are not compromising your standards, then do it for you. Love yourself first, in turn, you will love people better, if they are there to love you too.
 
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