"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Is it ever okay to bargin or applogize with a chick?

Weezy

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Question:

Most of the sh1t I see on here is dudes who are completely owned by there chicks, needy, clingy, etc continuing to get owned etc.

What if you lose a chick because you flat out treated her like sh1t and you regret the hell out of it. If basically when you look back, you were so selfish in the relationship that she really had no choice but to leave?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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SchoolBoy

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Weezy said:
Question:

Most of the sh1t I see on here is dudes who are completely owned by there chicks, needy, clingy, etc continuing to get owned etc.

What if you lose a chick because you flat out treated her like sh1t and you regret the hell out of it. If basically when you look back, you were so selfish in the relationship that she really had no choice but to leave?
That's why you can't be a complete jerk or a complete AFC. There has to be a balance between the two.

Don't treat a woman like sh1t unless they have BPD and like it that way. But don't treat a woman like a princess either.

You can't "Bargain" with women because they are not logical creatures. They make decisions based on emotions.

Regarding apologizing, keep it minimal and make sure you only apologize when you know that you are in the wrong 100%.
 

fertileTurtle

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Act on your conscience. If you feel like you should apologize, as long as you are not compromising your standards, then do it for you. Love yourself first, in turn, you will love people better, if they are there to love you too.
 
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