"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Is it easy to cheat in a relationship

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If you are a guy? Its obviously easy for girls.

But I ask because being in a relationship and having a gf kind of brings up your smv, doesn't it? Its shows you are wanted by some women, and desirable. Not to mention the confidence boost. But does that all make it easier to cheat?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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If you got one you can get two. It only gets difficult when you live with one.
If you do cheat, make sure you get the names right. Don't want Sarah asking why you called her Susie…
 
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If you are a guy? Its obviously easy for girls.

But I ask because being in a relationship and having a gf kind of brings up your smv, doesn't it? Its shows you are wanted by some women, and desirable. Not to mention the confidence boost. But does that all make it easier to cheat?
Being in a relationship makes it easy to cheat - with any girls who you like less.

That's why you should always do anything possible to date the girls you truly think are the most beautiful girls in the world. Then, every girl you know will aspire to steal you from her.

Cheating on the right person makes you feel empty. If they cheated and didn't regret it, look in the mirror.
 

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If they cheated and didn't regret it, look in the mirror.
If she didn't regret it, she was a hoe. Quite possibly with personal mental issues also.
Normal people know when they have done someone wrong and usually regret their behavior.
Sociopaths, or people with whatever issues, or no morals are another story. They are no better than a petty thief or a two bit hooker that don't regret their actions.
 
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I keep wondering, if I rinse off my d!ck in the sink after sex, is that good enough to stick it in the next girl's mouth later that day? Can she taste the other girl? Maybe it's a pheromone thing and just turns her on more. So far, so good. I haven't been called out on it yet.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Why cheat. Find the right girls and they really don't care if you are seeing other women. They really don't! All you have to do is NEVER agree to an exclusive relationship... and just keep switching out women that are interested in long term commitments. If she pushes for exclusivity... push back, she will either hang around or leave. If she leaves just load up another. If you lie to a chick to keep her around you are not doing yourself any favors.
 

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Why cheat. Find the right girls and they really don't care if you are seeing other women. They really don't! All you have to do is NEVER agree to an exclusive relationship... and just keep switching out women that are interested in long term commitments. If she pushes for exclusivity... push back, she will either hang around or leave. If she leaves just load up another. If you lie to a chick to keep her around you are not doing yourself any favors.
Im not at the place yet with my game where I can just go out and get a one night stand, but I want to raise my N-count as high as possible, thats why I would cheat. I agree with the rest of the things you said about never going exclusive though.
 

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These days, it's basically one big orgy and they might decide after a few rounds with the gang that they like one person the best.

But there is no cheating per so, because you should never be in a commitment unless she is begging for one and you have no better options (in which case you should find some).
 
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