"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Is it easy to cheat in a relationship

Epicwinguy

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If you are a guy? Its obviously easy for girls.

But I ask because being in a relationship and having a gf kind of brings up your smv, doesn't it? Its shows you are wanted by some women, and desirable. Not to mention the confidence boost. But does that all make it easier to cheat?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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If you got one you can get two. It only gets difficult when you live with one.
If you do cheat, make sure you get the names right. Don't want Sarah asking why you called her Susie…
 
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If you are a guy? Its obviously easy for girls.

But I ask because being in a relationship and having a gf kind of brings up your smv, doesn't it? Its shows you are wanted by some women, and desirable. Not to mention the confidence boost. But does that all make it easier to cheat?
Being in a relationship makes it easy to cheat - with any girls who you like less.

That's why you should always do anything possible to date the girls you truly think are the most beautiful girls in the world. Then, every girl you know will aspire to steal you from her.

Cheating on the right person makes you feel empty. If they cheated and didn't regret it, look in the mirror.
 

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If they cheated and didn't regret it, look in the mirror.
If she didn't regret it, she was a hoe. Quite possibly with personal mental issues also.
Normal people know when they have done someone wrong and usually regret their behavior.
Sociopaths, or people with whatever issues, or no morals are another story. They are no better than a petty thief or a two bit hooker that don't regret their actions.
 
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I keep wondering, if I rinse off my d!ck in the sink after sex, is that good enough to stick it in the next girl's mouth later that day? Can she taste the other girl? Maybe it's a pheromone thing and just turns her on more. So far, so good. I haven't been called out on it yet.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Why cheat. Find the right girls and they really don't care if you are seeing other women. They really don't! All you have to do is NEVER agree to an exclusive relationship... and just keep switching out women that are interested in long term commitments. If she pushes for exclusivity... push back, she will either hang around or leave. If she leaves just load up another. If you lie to a chick to keep her around you are not doing yourself any favors.
 

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Why cheat. Find the right girls and they really don't care if you are seeing other women. They really don't! All you have to do is NEVER agree to an exclusive relationship... and just keep switching out women that are interested in long term commitments. If she pushes for exclusivity... push back, she will either hang around or leave. If she leaves just load up another. If you lie to a chick to keep her around you are not doing yourself any favors.
Im not at the place yet with my game where I can just go out and get a one night stand, but I want to raise my N-count as high as possible, thats why I would cheat. I agree with the rest of the things you said about never going exclusive though.
 

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These days, it's basically one big orgy and they might decide after a few rounds with the gang that they like one person the best.

But there is no cheating per so, because you should never be in a commitment unless she is begging for one and you have no better options (in which case you should find some).
 
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