Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Is it easy to cheat in a relationship

Epicwinguy

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If you are a guy? Its obviously easy for girls.

But I ask because being in a relationship and having a gf kind of brings up your smv, doesn't it? Its shows you are wanted by some women, and desirable. Not to mention the confidence boost. But does that all make it easier to cheat?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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If you got one you can get two. It only gets difficult when you live with one.
If you do cheat, make sure you get the names right. Don't want Sarah asking why you called her Susie…
 
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If you are a guy? Its obviously easy for girls.

But I ask because being in a relationship and having a gf kind of brings up your smv, doesn't it? Its shows you are wanted by some women, and desirable. Not to mention the confidence boost. But does that all make it easier to cheat?
Being in a relationship makes it easy to cheat - with any girls who you like less.

That's why you should always do anything possible to date the girls you truly think are the most beautiful girls in the world. Then, every girl you know will aspire to steal you from her.

Cheating on the right person makes you feel empty. If they cheated and didn't regret it, look in the mirror.
 

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If they cheated and didn't regret it, look in the mirror.
If she didn't regret it, she was a hoe. Quite possibly with personal mental issues also.
Normal people know when they have done someone wrong and usually regret their behavior.
Sociopaths, or people with whatever issues, or no morals are another story. They are no better than a petty thief or a two bit hooker that don't regret their actions.
 
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I keep wondering, if I rinse off my d!ck in the sink after sex, is that good enough to stick it in the next girl's mouth later that day? Can she taste the other girl? Maybe it's a pheromone thing and just turns her on more. So far, so good. I haven't been called out on it yet.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Why cheat. Find the right girls and they really don't care if you are seeing other women. They really don't! All you have to do is NEVER agree to an exclusive relationship... and just keep switching out women that are interested in long term commitments. If she pushes for exclusivity... push back, she will either hang around or leave. If she leaves just load up another. If you lie to a chick to keep her around you are not doing yourself any favors.
 

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Why cheat. Find the right girls and they really don't care if you are seeing other women. They really don't! All you have to do is NEVER agree to an exclusive relationship... and just keep switching out women that are interested in long term commitments. If she pushes for exclusivity... push back, she will either hang around or leave. If she leaves just load up another. If you lie to a chick to keep her around you are not doing yourself any favors.
Im not at the place yet with my game where I can just go out and get a one night stand, but I want to raise my N-count as high as possible, thats why I would cheat. I agree with the rest of the things you said about never going exclusive though.
 

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These days, it's basically one big orgy and they might decide after a few rounds with the gang that they like one person the best.

But there is no cheating per so, because you should never be in a commitment unless she is begging for one and you have no better options (in which case you should find some).
 
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