Is it dumb to have a gf

[captain55]

Are relationships at a young age beta? Every time I get into a relationship I immediately have another fine girl come into my life. Since I'm committed by then I never do anything with this new hot chick that comes into my life.

I would like kids and a family and all that but right now just can't see myself ever being truly satisfied with sleeping with only one woman. Not saying I'm a cheating scumbag, but I do ask myself why I get into relationship sometimes. I know guys will say you haven't met the right girl yet, but I just feel like I'm always going to want to **** other women. I'm in my mid twenties for the record and have had my share of hot women so I'm getting worried because I should Have grown out of this phase by now.

 

[logicallefty]

Wanting a wife and family isn't beta, its somewhat natural. But it's also becoming unrealistic. I feel sorry for the guys who want it super badly and haven't yet figured out how dangerous it is to get married in these times. Or the ones who already got married and have no clue what they're in for. With people I know I'm watching what look on the surface like good marriages go down the toilet like the turds from yesterday's breakfast, lunch, and supper. Plop. Plop. Plop. Gone.

 

[Reykhel]

It's dumb to "want" one from the outset.

If that's your frame of mind, then you're setting yourself up to be a biatch

 

[jnMissouri]

Wanting a wife and family isn't beta, its somewhat natural. But it's also becoming unrealistic. I feel sorry for the guys who want it super badly and haven't yet figured out how dangerous it is to get married in these times. Or the ones who already got married and have no clue what they're in for. With people I know I'm watching what look on the surface like good marriages go down the toilet like the turds from yesterday's breakfast, lunch, and supper. Plop. Plop. Plop. Gone.

This! I'm in my mid thirties and have avoided marriage and children like the plague. Especially because I have money, though I learned game when I was broke, thank goodness, so I don't have to go out and buy a Lambo to get women, though I could.

That said, I've been considering starting a thread about whether I should break up with my gf. I really want to date other women, but we have come to rely on each other and have a routine we've built over the years.

Also, I will say that I was faithful to a girl and had girls THROWING themselves at me, like basically let's grab a drink at your place, etc. because I was gaming them in undergrad. I turned them down because I was going to be the faithful chump. Wouldn't you know it, that gf was dating other guys behind my back....I won't make the same mistake twice. If a girl is down, she get's banged.

 

[Reykhel]

No you are a Boy. Boys like girls

On the outset you are correct...

However, I would say that boys want to fvck. to penetrate and conquer.

It's not necessarily a "girlfriend"t that they seek or pursue....

It's a social construct that says that young men want a long term relationship

Let's not talk ****e to the young impressionable men