"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Is it dumb to have a gf

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Are relationships at a young age beta? Every time I get into a relationship I immediately have another fine girl come into my life. Since I'm committed by then I never do anything with this new hot chick that comes into my life.

I would like kids and a family and all that but right now just can't see myself ever being truly satisfied with sleeping with only one woman. Not saying I'm a cheating scumbag, but I do ask myself why I get into relationship sometimes. I know guys will say you haven't met the right girl yet, but I just feel like I'm always going to want to **** other women. I'm in my mid twenties for the record and have had my share of hot women so I'm getting worried because I should Have grown out of this phase by now.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Wanting a wife and family isn't beta, its somewhat natural. But it's also becoming unrealistic. I feel sorry for the guys who want it super badly and haven't yet figured out how dangerous it is to get married in these times. Or the ones who already got married and have no clue what they're in for. With people I know I'm watching what look on the surface like good marriages go down the toilet like the turds from yesterday's breakfast, lunch, and supper. Plop. Plop. Plop. Gone.
 
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It's dumb to "want" one from the outset.

If that's your frame of mind, then you're setting yourself up to be a biatch
 
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logicallefty said:
Wanting a wife and family isn't beta, its somewhat natural. But it's also becoming unrealistic. I feel sorry for the guys who want it super badly and haven't yet figured out how dangerous it is to get married in these times. Or the ones who already got married and have no clue what they're in for. With people I know I'm watching what look on the surface like good marriages go down the toilet like the turds from yesterday's breakfast, lunch, and supper. Plop. Plop. Plop. Gone.
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This! I'm in my mid thirties and have avoided marriage and children like the plague. Especially because I have money, though I learned game when I was broke, thank goodness, so I don't have to go out and buy a Lambo to get women, though I could.

That said, I've been considering starting a thread about whether I should break up with my gf. I really want to date other women, but we have come to rely on each other and have a routine we've built over the years.

Also, I will say that I was faithful to a girl and had girls THROWING themselves at me, like basically let's grab a drink at your place, etc. because I was gaming them in undergrad. I turned them down because I was going to be the faithful chump. Wouldn't you know it, that gf was dating other guys behind my back....I won't make the same mistake twice. If a girl is down, she get's banged.
 
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No you are a Boy. Boys like girls
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On the outset you are correct...

However, I would say that boys want to fvck. to penetrate and conquer.

It's not necessarily a "girlfriend"t that they seek or pursue....

It's a social construct that says that young men want a long term relationship

Let's not talk ****e to the young impressionable men
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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