For example :
You see a girl, and you are bored (or you want to demonstrate value by showing other girls want you for a girl you really are into) so you start flirting with her, practicing your game. She responds very well and laughs and smiles a lot. You start flirting with her even more because of the response you are getting. You start to make her think that you might be into her. You compliment her a little and even go a little faster than you usually would - because you do not care what she thinks because you dont want her anyway. You are super confident because you do not care about the outcome. She responds to this confidence by liking you more. Now this girl is gonna go home and start thinking about you. Than when you see her again, you had some fun talking to her the first time so you do it again. She starts to like you even more now. Now this chick is really into you, probably thinking about you all the time, even though you knew from the very start that you had no intention of going out with this girl. She probably stops responding to other guys,other guys that actually do want her, because she thinks you are into her.
Is that not cruel?
This seems like the equivalent of a hot girl stringing guys along just to get attention, and us guys know how much we hate that.
I suppose one can argue that it is fair because both sexes are doing it to each other, but that is the two wrongs fallacy.
Dont get me wrong, I am not saying do not do this, as I do it all the time and probably wont stop because its so fun and allows me to practice and say things I probably wouldnt say to a girl I really liked. It allows me to say risky things, and if it works than I know I could use it with a girl I actually do want. Im just saying, it seems pretty cruel to me lol.
You see a girl, and you are bored (or you want to demonstrate value by showing other girls want you for a girl you really are into) so you start flirting with her, practicing your game. She responds very well and laughs and smiles a lot. You start flirting with her even more because of the response you are getting. You start to make her think that you might be into her. You compliment her a little and even go a little faster than you usually would - because you do not care what she thinks because you dont want her anyway. You are super confident because you do not care about the outcome. She responds to this confidence by liking you more. Now this girl is gonna go home and start thinking about you. Than when you see her again, you had some fun talking to her the first time so you do it again. She starts to like you even more now. Now this chick is really into you, probably thinking about you all the time, even though you knew from the very start that you had no intention of going out with this girl. She probably stops responding to other guys,other guys that actually do want her, because she thinks you are into her.
Is that not cruel?
This seems like the equivalent of a hot girl stringing guys along just to get attention, and us guys know how much we hate that.
I suppose one can argue that it is fair because both sexes are doing it to each other, but that is the two wrongs fallacy.
Dont get me wrong, I am not saying do not do this, as I do it all the time and probably wont stop because its so fun and allows me to practice and say things I probably wouldnt say to a girl I really liked. It allows me to say risky things, and if it works than I know I could use it with a girl I actually do want. Im just saying, it seems pretty cruel to me lol.
