"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Is it cool for guys to throw sexual insults at women?

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mimi

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A guy said something disgusting to me at this 'political' forum. I wasn't even talking to him. Just taking the side of the political party I liked. I didn't say stuff like your sister or your mother :cuss: blah blah (usu. what girls do around here)... I just told him it was for political discussion and there are other places for people like him. Not the best counter strategy for such people... but why be so disrespectful w/t a reason? :cry:

And I just realized this forum was for men only... oh well :eek:
 
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Ah! But there are those who take politics deeply to heart. He said it to upset you....and it worked.

Ignore him, and don't respond to his bait. He'll flame the wrong person and get banned soon enough.
 

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mimi's got the signs of being yet another troll.

feed the trolls at your own risk, you have been warned.
 

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Well I did ban him... but arrggg i am still on fire. Maybe people like me shouldn't even go to ANY forum.
 

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mimi are you talking about that hilarious ****y + funny line that canadian catnip so cleverly came up with?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Ganondorf said:
what's with the recent serge of women among us?
I'm thinking if you looked around Loveshack you'd probably find the source. I think the poster iqqi is recruiting trolls to come here.
 
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