"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Is it cool for guys to throw sexual insults at women?

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mimi

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A guy said something disgusting to me at this 'political' forum. I wasn't even talking to him. Just taking the side of the political party I liked. I didn't say stuff like your sister or your mother :cuss: blah blah (usu. what girls do around here)... I just told him it was for political discussion and there are other places for people like him. Not the best counter strategy for such people... but why be so disrespectful w/t a reason? :cry:

And I just realized this forum was for men only... oh well :eek:
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Ah! But there are those who take politics deeply to heart. He said it to upset you....and it worked.

Ignore him, and don't respond to his bait. He'll flame the wrong person and get banned soon enough.
 

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mimi's got the signs of being yet another troll.

feed the trolls at your own risk, you have been warned.
 

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Well I did ban him... but arrggg i am still on fire. Maybe people like me shouldn't even go to ANY forum.
 

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mimi are you talking about that hilarious ****y + funny line that canadian catnip so cleverly came up with?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Ganondorf said:
what's with the recent serge of women among us?
I'm thinking if you looked around Loveshack you'd probably find the source. I think the poster iqqi is recruiting trolls to come here.
 
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