"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Is it considered "manly" to like eating a woman out?

AmIAFC

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I'm currently seeing someone and we're having our 4th date this Tuesday. We've made out on every single date, including the first one, without going all the way (intercourse).

Anyway, I'm a guy who enjoy eating a woman out and I'm wanting to do just that tomorrow but since we haven't explored oral pleasure with each other yet, I don't want to scare her into thinking I'm a frenzied c***-lapper, especially since I have a tendency of going overboard when I do it.

Is it considered off-putting or submissive to the girl for the man to initiate oral sexual activity early in the mating process, before intercourse or getting oral first himself?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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TheBucketOfTruth

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There's nothing wrong with giving a woman a good time if you know what you're doing. Unless the girl isn't into that kind of thing, I don't think you can go wrong here (assuming she wants to hook up with you in the first place).
 

runner83

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" Son...you taste that?....nothing tastes like that....I love the taste of p*ssy in morning."


In answer to your question, if she's into you, it won't matter. If you know what you're going, get her going and ready for take off, and then strap yourself in and get ready for the ride!
 

kingsam

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most guys i know dont do it much, at least hate it , so you may be a rare find, which will make you a great lover in her POV
if any thing it will help you - being able to give multiple O's!

i have a really big tounge and am good at it! some girls do really apreciate and love it, but if she dont seem to apreachiate it then stop bothering...(of if her pu$$y smells bad...eww!)

runner83 said:
" Son...you taste that?....nothing tastes like that....I love the taste of p*ssy in morning."
...smells like victory!
 

Sir Psycho Sexy

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AmIAFC said:
Is it considered off-putting or submissive to the girl for the man to initiate oral sexual activity early in the mating process, before intercourse or getting oral first himself?
Definitely not off-putting or submissive. Rather the opposite. You can initiate and give oral sex in a dominate way which is what I would suggest to do most of the time. Most girls get off on being dominated.

Shes not going to think,"Whoa, this guy is going down on me before Iv given him head or sex? Not cool, hes gotta go"
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Bible_Belt

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It is considered manly to be good at anything. You had mentioned enjoying it yourself. The point is to enjoy making her enjoy it. That is fine. Anything else is weird. Don't go there.
 

CarlitosWay

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AmIAFC said:
Is it considered off-putting or submissive to the girl for the man to initiate oral sexual activity early in the mating process, before intercourse or getting oral first himself?
lol@ "mating process" wtf? do you watch a lot of narrated animal shows or something? haha....

Eat until your hearts content I say, I honestly love it, especially when they're fresh out of the showe. ...so jealous I haven't nom nom on a chic in a lwhile. :box: Enjoy :)
 

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Hell yes it is manly.

Every now and then (very rarely) you'll get a girl who feels 'awkward' that you're down there.. give it 5 minutes and she'll never utter those words again.

Eat away.
 

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Its a hell of a lot more manly than sucking dyck!
 
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