"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Is it considered "manly" to like eating a woman out?

AmIAFC

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I'm currently seeing someone and we're having our 4th date this Tuesday. We've made out on every single date, including the first one, without going all the way (intercourse).

Anyway, I'm a guy who enjoy eating a woman out and I'm wanting to do just that tomorrow but since we haven't explored oral pleasure with each other yet, I don't want to scare her into thinking I'm a frenzied c***-lapper, especially since I have a tendency of going overboard when I do it.

Is it considered off-putting or submissive to the girl for the man to initiate oral sexual activity early in the mating process, before intercourse or getting oral first himself?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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TheBucketOfTruth

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There's nothing wrong with giving a woman a good time if you know what you're doing. Unless the girl isn't into that kind of thing, I don't think you can go wrong here (assuming she wants to hook up with you in the first place).
 

runner83

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" Son...you taste that?....nothing tastes like that....I love the taste of p*ssy in morning."


In answer to your question, if she's into you, it won't matter. If you know what you're going, get her going and ready for take off, and then strap yourself in and get ready for the ride!
 

kingsam

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most guys i know dont do it much, at least hate it , so you may be a rare find, which will make you a great lover in her POV
if any thing it will help you - being able to give multiple O's!

i have a really big tounge and am good at it! some girls do really apreciate and love it, but if she dont seem to apreachiate it then stop bothering...(of if her pu$$y smells bad...eww!)

runner83 said:
" Son...you taste that?....nothing tastes like that....I love the taste of p*ssy in morning."
...smells like victory!
 

Sir Psycho Sexy

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AmIAFC said:
Is it considered off-putting or submissive to the girl for the man to initiate oral sexual activity early in the mating process, before intercourse or getting oral first himself?
Definitely not off-putting or submissive. Rather the opposite. You can initiate and give oral sex in a dominate way which is what I would suggest to do most of the time. Most girls get off on being dominated.

Shes not going to think,"Whoa, this guy is going down on me before Iv given him head or sex? Not cool, hes gotta go"
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Bible_Belt

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It is considered manly to be good at anything. You had mentioned enjoying it yourself. The point is to enjoy making her enjoy it. That is fine. Anything else is weird. Don't go there.
 

CarlitosWay

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AmIAFC said:
Is it considered off-putting or submissive to the girl for the man to initiate oral sexual activity early in the mating process, before intercourse or getting oral first himself?
lol@ "mating process" wtf? do you watch a lot of narrated animal shows or something? haha....

Eat until your hearts content I say, I honestly love it, especially when they're fresh out of the showe. ...so jealous I haven't nom nom on a chic in a lwhile. :box: Enjoy :)
 

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Hell yes it is manly.

Every now and then (very rarely) you'll get a girl who feels 'awkward' that you're down there.. give it 5 minutes and she'll never utter those words again.

Eat away.
 

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Its a hell of a lot more manly than sucking dyck!
 
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