"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Is it common for avg looking to women to rejected good looking guys like nothing

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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mrgoodstuff

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I'm talking about women who look between 5-6/10.
Some of em are huge on what their "circle" and friends think. So if your not one of them, it doesn't matter how you look. Now they might just USE you if you have money or sometihng else they want.
 

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I have a male model friend who has been rejected by 5's. All guys get rejected but he will have a much higher hit rate than the average dude (which is still only like 50% though).
 

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I have a male model friend who has been rejected by 5's. All guys get rejected but he will have a much higher hit rate than the average dude (which is still only like 50% though).
Girls will reject someone who has so much personal power in their looks, to gain power. Also alot of times the model will look BETTER than her and most females won't have that at all. Like player supreme says "If they ain't choosin, they are a zero to me".
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Ya I’ve been rejected by whales but I have dates with two HB 9 this weekend.
 

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It's only common outside high school and college. In the adult world, most guys have no social circles or means to meet women and their standards go way down. It is common for an 8 to struggle to find a decent looking bf in college. But in the adult world, she is a celebrity.

This is why gaming doesn't work all that well. You need to network, get a social life, and find ways to surround yourself with women. Only then will things make sense (like getting rewarded for your looks).
 
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