"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Is it common for avg looking to women to rejected good looking guys like nothing

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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mrgoodstuff

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I'm talking about women who look between 5-6/10.
Some of em are huge on what their "circle" and friends think. So if your not one of them, it doesn't matter how you look. Now they might just USE you if you have money or sometihng else they want.
 

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I have a male model friend who has been rejected by 5's. All guys get rejected but he will have a much higher hit rate than the average dude (which is still only like 50% though).
 

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I have a male model friend who has been rejected by 5's. All guys get rejected but he will have a much higher hit rate than the average dude (which is still only like 50% though).
Girls will reject someone who has so much personal power in their looks, to gain power. Also alot of times the model will look BETTER than her and most females won't have that at all. Like player supreme says "If they ain't choosin, they are a zero to me".
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Ya I’ve been rejected by whales but I have dates with two HB 9 this weekend.
 

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It's only common outside high school and college. In the adult world, most guys have no social circles or means to meet women and their standards go way down. It is common for an 8 to struggle to find a decent looking bf in college. But in the adult world, she is a celebrity.

This is why gaming doesn't work all that well. You need to network, get a social life, and find ways to surround yourself with women. Only then will things make sense (like getting rewarded for your looks).
 
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