Is it better to have 5-10 women on your radar or 2-3?

[skinnyguy]

One of the tenets of SS is to spin plates. However I'm wondering if too many is a bad thing.


I feel that the law of diminishing returns applies to women. You're less likely to feel more fulfilled if you have more than 3 because juggling it gets complicated and you have to lie a lot.

I do think the ideal situation would be to have two women as your go-to girls. Outside of that you'll want to have some orbiters but don't spend too much time on them. Just extract what you need from them.

Based on what I've seen this is something that women actually prefer because they like a challenge and having competition. If she knows she is the only one you'll become disposable.

 

[apprenticedj]

It's a personal choice but I don't think I could handle more than 3 plates that I'm actively f*cking or dating. #1 My time is limited, #2 my money is even more limited.

 

[Mr Wright]

Realistically I think if you're seeing 5-10, women you're not seeing them all once a week and logistically it's a minefield.

Personally, I prefer to have a main chick, a fückbuddy and another girl who is chill to hang out with occasionally and you get on with her, you can chill and watch netflix or something.

 

[Skyline]

Realistically I think if you're seeing 5-10, women you're not seeing them all once a week and logistically it's a minefield.

Personally, I prefer to have a main chick, a fückbuddy and another girl who is chill to hang out with occasionally and you get on with her, you can chill and watch netflix or something.

Happy birthday.

 

[Mr Wright]

Happy birthday.

Thanks man, I feel old!

 

[TheCWord]

Thanks man, I feel old!

Age: 22

 

[escaleraroyal]

Im 36. I don't think I can handle 6 I'm fkin. Getting old u know. I have a full time job.

 

[Ozel599]

Depends, are we talking about 5-10 flabby 0-7s or 2-3 7-10 HBs?

 

[Genos]

First and foremost, you need to make sure you have the time to be achieving your own personal/career goals first.

After that, however date many girls it takes for you to foster an abundance mentality. More than 4-5 simultaneously seems like a lot to me though...just scheduling and trying to meet each of them once a week is gonna be a task in itself XD. But if you can do it and thats what you want, go for it.

 

[bigneil]

One of the tenets of SS is to spin plates. However I'm wondering if too many is a bad thing.

No, this is wishful thinking I'm afraid. It's like saying your girl is too skinny or that you have too much money or time. It's a good problem to have. While there is indeed a limit to how many women YOU can pursue at once, ultimately, you want as many women as possible who are pursuing YOU. This is why I recommend the periodic "phone purge". That way, when you look at your text messages, you will see only girls who have recently texted you.

There is an art to it. You have to "collect" women. You have to build a harem. Note that I mean a harem of romantic interests, not sexual conquests. For once you have sex with them, they are like one of those toys that you push down and they pop once the timer goes off. In other words, it becomes relationship or bust.

While you can't keep past conquests around forever, you can keep women you haven't had sex with yet romantically interested indefinitely, provided that you have enough other options. This is the key to the promised land.

5-10 is actually the right number because what happens is, girls flake and it is beyond your control. It doesn't matter if she wants to marry you someday, or you just had an "all you can f*ck" weekend with her. They will periodically flake on you. The solution is to have so many girls that you can lose track of even HB8+ women who you had sex with. With only 2-3 women you really can't. That's like juggling and it just takes one distraction and you drop them all.

With 10 women you can always have 3 women who wrote to you that week, meaning you always have about 1 girl ready to go at any given moment. Trust me, you will start to flake on them at that point.

Girls who flake (versus lose interest), if handled properly, will almost always randomly write to you at some point. Each girl is different, but you want to get into that comfort zone which (with hot women) means giving them a few weeks off here and there. I've found that they can disappear for up to a whole month and still come back. If they disappear for more than a month it's generally over forever. Relationships are like balloons. They get bigger and bigger until they pop. And sadly, you can't unpop a balloon.

Hugh had it right. Try to have sex with one new girl every month.

 

[mangotot]

Banging chicks needs to be a full time lifestyle occupation if you are going to see 10 chicks a weeks. Whoever has the time to do that is one lucky dude.

 

[BetterCallSaul]

Hell this seems like a nice problem to have. If you really want to cull a couple from your list, pick 2 of them and see if they're down for a threesome. If not and they write you off, they just made your life easier.


But if they're up for it........................

 

[LMFAO]

I had 8 girls on the spin living in Manhattan, and it really was a full time job and I barely had time for anything else. I had a female friend advising me and telling that it's fine trying out several different girls but then cut it down and focus and prioritise on the ones you care about. In any case before I knew it several of them flaked, and one turned into a proper relationship for several months.
Was it worth the experience? Of course it was, I feel better for it but it's really not something which is doable over the course of weeks unless you have nothing else to live for.

 

[Rainman4707]

Realistically I think if you're seeing 5-10, women you're not seeing them all once a week and logistically it's a minefield.

Personally, I prefer to have a main chick, a fückbuddy and another girl who is chill to hang out with occasionally and you get on with her, you can chill and watch netflix or something.

I'm curious how much has the main chick said about you having a fu*k buddy or is she not aware