"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Is it better to compliment all the time or to never compliment at all?

Bonez

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I find myself making friends and not getting slapped by bytches more now that I started complimenting people after neggin them.

"Nice shoes, buy them at the flea market? They look good."

I added the "they look good" only last week and I stopped getting looks like I should go to hell.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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backbreaker

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if I had to choose between the two, not to compliment at all.. but a sincere compliment will take you a long way.. note the singular version of that aspect
 

Axcell

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I wouldn't compliment a girl EVER, unless I was doing it in a ****y and funny manner.
Example:
Me: Nice glasses.
Her: Thanks! (Wow, is this guy trying to pick me up, ugh.)
Me: Did you get them at Home Depot?

Honestly, I wouldn't compliment a girl at all, you will show yourself as being needy and wanting approval. Remember you are a player, and you DON'T need a girls approval for anything. The moment she realizes you want her, she will NOT want you anymore. Don't make that mistake!

The only time I would compliment a girl is when attraction has already been built and you are in a somewhat relationship. And even than, I would stay away from the, "You are so beautiful" etc etc.
Only compliment a girl on things she wears, NOT her looks.

Also, to answer your second question. Even though that was a somewhat good example of ****y humor; I would only use examples such as these ones when you are with a girl who you are somewhat familiar with, otherwise you will appear to be an *******. Remember, its called ****y+funny for a reason - don't just be ****y! If you aren't making the girl laugh while complimenting yourself at the same time, you aren't doing ****y humor.
A possible mistake you could have made is with your BODY LANGUAGE. Remember, a big part of this technique is your body language. What is body language? Things such as putting an exaggerated smile after you say the joke, or having a smile on your face while saying your joke. If you go up to her with a serious face and tell her, it will appear to be very OFFENSIVE; and than you lost your chance with a potential girl.

Anyway - Hope I helped and answered your question,
Nick.
 

backbreaker

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dude...grow up

immature games work on immature girls.

I don't' have to resort to saying some stupid ass **** like did you get your glasses at home depot. first of all, I wouldn't be complimenting on her glasses. I would be complimenting her on her lips (i love lips).. what the fvck is sexual about home depot? But call a woman's lips 'suckable" and see what happens

of course if she isn't attracted to you it doesn't matter what you say, you aren't going to get anywhere.
 
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