"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Is it better to compliment all the time or to never compliment at all?

Bonez

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I find myself making friends and not getting slapped by bytches more now that I started complimenting people after neggin them.

"Nice shoes, buy them at the flea market? They look good."

I added the "they look good" only last week and I stopped getting looks like I should go to hell.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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if I had to choose between the two, not to compliment at all.. but a sincere compliment will take you a long way.. note the singular version of that aspect
 

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I wouldn't compliment a girl EVER, unless I was doing it in a ****y and funny manner.
Example:
Me: Nice glasses.
Her: Thanks! (Wow, is this guy trying to pick me up, ugh.)
Me: Did you get them at Home Depot?

Honestly, I wouldn't compliment a girl at all, you will show yourself as being needy and wanting approval. Remember you are a player, and you DON'T need a girls approval for anything. The moment she realizes you want her, she will NOT want you anymore. Don't make that mistake!

The only time I would compliment a girl is when attraction has already been built and you are in a somewhat relationship. And even than, I would stay away from the, "You are so beautiful" etc etc.
Only compliment a girl on things she wears, NOT her looks.

Also, to answer your second question. Even though that was a somewhat good example of ****y humor; I would only use examples such as these ones when you are with a girl who you are somewhat familiar with, otherwise you will appear to be an *******. Remember, its called ****y+funny for a reason - don't just be ****y! If you aren't making the girl laugh while complimenting yourself at the same time, you aren't doing ****y humor.
A possible mistake you could have made is with your BODY LANGUAGE. Remember, a big part of this technique is your body language. What is body language? Things such as putting an exaggerated smile after you say the joke, or having a smile on your face while saying your joke. If you go up to her with a serious face and tell her, it will appear to be very OFFENSIVE; and than you lost your chance with a potential girl.

Anyway - Hope I helped and answered your question,
Nick.
 

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dude...grow up

immature games work on immature girls.

I don't' have to resort to saying some stupid ass **** like did you get your glasses at home depot. first of all, I wouldn't be complimenting on her glasses. I would be complimenting her on her lips (i love lips).. what the fvck is sexual about home depot? But call a woman's lips 'suckable" and see what happens

of course if she isn't attracted to you it doesn't matter what you say, you aren't going to get anywhere.
 
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