"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Is it better to compliment all the time or to never compliment at all?

Bonez

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I find myself making friends and not getting slapped by bytches more now that I started complimenting people after neggin them.

"Nice shoes, buy them at the flea market? They look good."

I added the "they look good" only last week and I stopped getting looks like I should go to hell.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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backbreaker

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if I had to choose between the two, not to compliment at all.. but a sincere compliment will take you a long way.. note the singular version of that aspect
 

Axcell

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I wouldn't compliment a girl EVER, unless I was doing it in a ****y and funny manner.
Example:
Me: Nice glasses.
Her: Thanks! (Wow, is this guy trying to pick me up, ugh.)
Me: Did you get them at Home Depot?

Honestly, I wouldn't compliment a girl at all, you will show yourself as being needy and wanting approval. Remember you are a player, and you DON'T need a girls approval for anything. The moment she realizes you want her, she will NOT want you anymore. Don't make that mistake!

The only time I would compliment a girl is when attraction has already been built and you are in a somewhat relationship. And even than, I would stay away from the, "You are so beautiful" etc etc.
Only compliment a girl on things she wears, NOT her looks.

Also, to answer your second question. Even though that was a somewhat good example of ****y humor; I would only use examples such as these ones when you are with a girl who you are somewhat familiar with, otherwise you will appear to be an *******. Remember, its called ****y+funny for a reason - don't just be ****y! If you aren't making the girl laugh while complimenting yourself at the same time, you aren't doing ****y humor.
A possible mistake you could have made is with your BODY LANGUAGE. Remember, a big part of this technique is your body language. What is body language? Things such as putting an exaggerated smile after you say the joke, or having a smile on your face while saying your joke. If you go up to her with a serious face and tell her, it will appear to be very OFFENSIVE; and than you lost your chance with a potential girl.

Anyway - Hope I helped and answered your question,
Nick.
 

backbreaker

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dude...grow up

immature games work on immature girls.

I don't' have to resort to saying some stupid ass **** like did you get your glasses at home depot. first of all, I wouldn't be complimenting on her glasses. I would be complimenting her on her lips (i love lips).. what the fvck is sexual about home depot? But call a woman's lips 'suckable" and see what happens

of course if she isn't attracted to you it doesn't matter what you say, you aren't going to get anywhere.
 
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