You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
That's like going back to an employer who bad-mouthed you, humiliated you, then fired you, but strangely (sadistically?) left the door open for your return.mikey2012 said:How about just use her for sex?
Lol funny thing is I have a friend that acts very beta in regards to his ex and trying to get her back.Between_The_Lines said:That's like going back to an employer who bad-mouthed you, humiliated you, then fired you, but strangely (sadistically?) left the door open for your return.
"I'm planning on going back, but just for the money. I definitely won't be putting my heart into my work - I have too much self-respect..."
dk1990S111 said:Lol funny thing is I have a friend that acts very beta in regards to his ex and trying to get her back.
Recently he was let go from his job as a graphic designer but then was contacted by the company for a quick job they needed help with. Ofcoarse he needed the money badly so can't really blame him.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
What were you using her for before if not sex?mikey2012 said:How about just use her for sex?
Why would you want to have sex with a woman who thought so little of you to cheat on you? You might not even get sex from her. Do not be a beta crawling back to a cheating slut. Worst thing you can do.mikey2012 said:Well I guess that's unanimous then. How about just use her for sex?