"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Is it bad when girls say you're cute

ozzfest

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I have a girl telling me my gym bag is cute and the lunch I ate was cute. I was like like "umm ok". Never heard of that before but whatever.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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coacj

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@korrupt
. I just recently got "you don't need me to get laid" when asking a chick out. Ha. Good brush off. No, I don't NEED you to get laid, but I'm asking you out because I WANT to hang out with you/f*ck you.. B!tch...
. I never called a woman an ******* before but in her case I'll make an exception. What a *****.

@ozzfest
I have a girl telling me my gym bag is cute and the lunch I ate was cute. I was like like "umm ok". Never heard of that before but whatever.
. I think this girl is nervous around you that's why she's giving you weird compliments
 

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hot is what you are looking for, thats a level beyond cute, girls dont care to say it either, calling a girl hot though is iffy at best
 

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ozzfest said:
I have a girl telling me my gym bag is cute and the lunch I ate was cute. I was like like "umm ok". Never heard of that before but whatever.
lol. Maybe she was indirectly saying your cute. usually when girls mention something that your doing in cute is cause they kind of like you. Still weird though but yea.
 
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