"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Is it bad that Don Juan is my motivation?

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Becoming a Don Juan in all aspects of life, especially the self improvement, is what motivates me now lol. Like when I want to skip class or skip the gym or not study, I hear a voice in my head that says “I guess you must not want to be a Don Juan.” And then I get to it. I’ve been more motivated than ever. I feel like no one can compete with a master Don Juan. Is it bad that Don Juan has become my motivation for my whole life basically?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Sounds like it's motivating you in a positive direction. Better to be motivated than unmotivated, no matter what the reasons.
 
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Nothing wrong with wanting to be awesome!!!

Once you become awesome, don't stop there! The name of the game is continual or perpetual progress!

Do not rest on your laurels!
 
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Espi said:
In my opinion a Don Juan never seeks outside validation for being a Don Juan.

If it's working then keep doing it with ZERO regard for others' opinions or approval. You don't need them to OK your reasoning.

FYI women are what primarily motivate me to look and feel lean and muscular. I'm not convinced I would spend any time hitting the gym and eating clean if it weren't for women. Many disagree with my reasoning but I don't care and I don't need their approval.
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Makes sense. The motivation doesn’t really matter if you’re out there being awesome
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Espi said:
In my opinion a Don Juan never seeks outside validation for being a Don Juan.

If it's working then keep doing it with ZERO regard for others' opinions or approval. You don't need them to OK your reasoning.

FYI women are what primarily motivate me to look and feel lean and muscular. I'm not convinced I would spend any time hitting the gym and eating clean if it weren't for women. Many disagree with my reasoning but I don't care and I don't need their approval.
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I must admit I walk (exercise) primarily because of sex (stamina) ...it get's my blood flowing and the results are noticeable..
 
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