Is it always bad to ask a girl where this is going

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

We've been only talking for a month, but since she has a busy schedule so I've been keeping an arms length between her to not appear needy. She pays for my stuff, makes time for me when she can, responds quickly to my texts,initiates touching, kissing, but she's one of those self proclaimed super religious Christian girls so getting sex means blue balls or hearing bible verses afterwards lol. She also doesn't initiate texting often, but it's probably cause of her personality and school and I would rather have a girl initiate grabbing my dvck than texting tbh. Do I like her? Yes, but I've found other girls and I'm not a fan of having 2-5 gfs to be honest. Should I just keep rolling with it or nah?

 

[EyeBRollin]

No. This girl doesn’t like you as much as you do her. Move on.

Men, your interest doesn’t matter. She has to choose you. Women that like you make it obvious.

 

[manfrombelow]

Of course it is. 100%.

By "asking her where this is going", you are telling her you are needy, insecure and that you are seeking her approval.

When it comes to seducing women, they either like/love you, or they don't, there's nothing in between. A month has passed and she still hasn't sucked your ****? Move on. Stop wasting your and her time.

Like @EyeBRollin said, the best relationship with a woman only happens when she thinks she chose you.

 

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

Of course it is. 100%.

By "asking her where this is going", you are telling her you are needy, insecure and that you are seeking her approval.

When it comes to seducing women, they either like/love you, or they don't, there's nothing in between. A month has passed and she still hasn't sucked your ****? Move on. Stop wasting your and her time.

Like @EyeBRollin said, the best relationship with a woman only happens when she thinks she chose you.

we've had sex

 

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

No. This girl doesn’t like you as much as you do her. Move on.

Men, your interest doesn’t matter. She has to choose you. Women that like you make it obvious.

What should she be doing? Dropping out of school to move in lol?

 

[manfrombelow]

we've had sex

So why the need to ask her "where this is going"?

You fvcked her. That's good. And that's all that's enough. What else do you want from her? A happy family with kids? COME ON MAN!

You are taking this woman too seriously. You should treat a like a plate along with at least 3-5 other plates that you bang on a daily basis.

 

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

So why the need to ask her "where this is going"?

You fvcked her. That's good. And that's all that's enough. What else do you want from her? A happy family with kids? COME ON MAN!

You are taking this woman too seriously. You should treat a like a plate along with at least 3-5 other plates that you bang on a daily basis.

No, I don't want 3 girlfriends lol. One girl is hard enough to deal with.

 

[manfrombelow]

No, I don't want 3 girlfriends lol. One girl is hard enough to deal with.

I said "plates", not girlfriend or LTR.

And if you found one girl is already "hard enough to deal with," you're not ready for any kind of longterm relationship, my friend.

 

[Mister_Skinny_Jeanz]

let her bring up the 'where is this going conversation'' that christianity crap means ABSOLUTELY NOTHING, just another excuse for them to avoid sex if they are still unsure. or convince you they are one of the ''good ones''

 

[bat soup]

We've been only talking for a month, but since she has a busy schedule so I've been keeping an arms length between her to not appear needy. She pays for my stuff, makes time for me when she can, responds quickly to my texts,initiates touching, kissing, but she's one of those self proclaimed super religious Christian girls so getting sex means blue balls or hearing bible verses afterwards lol. She also doesn't initiate texting often, but it's probably cause of her personality and school and I would rather have a girl initiate grabbing my dvck than texting tbh. Do I like her? Yes, but I've found other girls and I'm not a fan of having 2-5 gfs to be honest. Should I just keep rolling with it or nah?

Asking where it's going is a bad idea. It makes it more likely she'll see you as low value and/or needy and dump you.

 

[Mister_Skinny_Jeanz]

Asking where it's going is a bad idea. It makes it more likely she'll see you as low value and/or needy and dump you.

exactly , she should have to put a gun to your head and force you to get in a relationship.
but all this is easier said than done, a guy that has options and ready available sex is naturally going to act this way, go through a dry spell and see what happens. this is how women know your SMV by how you treat them

 

[manfrombelow]

let her bring up the 'where is this going conversation'' that christianity crap means ABSOLUTELY NOTHING, just another excuse for them to avoid sex if they are still unsure. or convince you they are one of the ''good ones''

As much as I hold deep respect for the religion, when it comes to seducing a woman, no amount of religious belief is going to stop her to fvck you like an animal if you give her enough reason to.

But when she doesn't want to fvck you, she'd come up with every kind of bullsh!t excuse there is not to fvck you.

 

[Mister_Skinny_Jeanz]

As much as I hold deep respect for the religion, when it comes to seducing a woman, no amount of religious belief is going to stop her to fvck you like an animal if you give her enough reason to.

But when she doesn't want to fvck you, she'd come up with every kind of bullsh!t excuse there is not to fvck you.

oh i have deep respect too, i was born and raised a christian, met alot of women at church actually.
they are the wildest

 

[manfrombelow]

but all this is easier said than done, a guy that has options and ready available sex is naturally going to act this way, go through a dry spell and see what happens. this is how women know your SMV by how you treat them

Which is why I told OP to date multiple women at the same time, which is something he seemed reluctant to do.

 

[bat soup]

As much as I hold deep respect for the religion, when it comes to seducing a woman, no amount of religious belief is going to stop her to fvck you like an animal if you give her enough reason to.

But when she doesn't want to fvck you, she'd come up with every kind of bullsh!t excuse there is not to fvck you.

Religion is just another excuse.

 

[manfrombelow]

Religion is just another excuse.

That's what I said.

 

[SW15]

@Jake_Gyllenhaal69 - Lead her where you want to go. If she comes along, fine. If not, someone else will if your frame is correct.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

No, I don't want 3 girlfriends lol. One girl is hard enough to deal with.

She isn't your girlfriend.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Religion is just another excuse.

The self proclaimed super religious ones seem to always be the ones getting gangbanged by random dudes in hotels rooms

 

[bat soup]

The self proclaimed super religious ones seem to always be the ones getting gangbanged by random dudes in hotels rooms

From behind (to stay virgin)