"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Is it alright to just give up on girls?

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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Oh god, this crap is still going. You guys never change, you still want to act like you know me, when you hardly know anything about me. Some of you are also just ignorant(Especially oakraiderz).
 
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Oh god, this crap is still going. You guys never change, you still want to act like you know me, when you hardly know anything about me. Some of you are also just ignorant(Especially oakraiderz).
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Oh God, you're repeating yourself again.
 
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You guys are some persistant people. Instead of just letting the topic die, you continue to revive it.
 
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You guys are some persistant people. Instead of just letting the topic die, you continue to revive it.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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"Is it alright to just give up on girls?"
No its NOT! Because we will beat the living daylights out of you if you do! Yeah we know where you live buddy! :rolleyes:
 
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You guys are some persistant people. Instead of just letting the topic die, you continue to revive it.
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Kinda like how you persistantly ignore people's advice. Isn't that funny?
 
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"Is it alright to just give up on girls?"
No its NOT! Because we will beat the living daylights out of you if you do! Yeah we know where you live buddy! :rolleyes:
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Eh, if I could find a place to approach chicks at the moment, then I'd approach them. Approaching chicks at school is just too trouble. Let's not say that I'm giving up on chicks, but I'm putting them on a temporary "haitus", probably until college, or whenever the hell I get a car.
 
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Eh, if I could find a place to approach chicks at the moment, then I'd approach them. Approaching chicks at school is just too trouble. Let's not say that I'm giving up on chicks, but I'm putting them on a temporary "haitus", probably until college, or whenever the hell I get a car.
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He'll never get girls then either. Fag. Too bad I'm still blocked.
 
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man look at wat u r saying.
U R A SENIOR DJ
you have the right mentality, just keep at it.
If u dont have time, just leave it man, wait till u got time, take a break and get on with your life for a while, but never give up.
Good luck fellow DJ
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Oh god, this crap is still going. You guys never change, you still want to act like you know me, when you hardly know anything about me. Some of you are also just ignorant(Especially oakraiderz).
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Why does he always bring me up? Someone tell me, please.
 
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Shut up Butters.
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LOL!! YES!!!!

look out for professor chaos though



High Five! (borat voice)

oh wow that was my 600th post...
eek..
ill stop for awhile
 
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I think you've been more consistant in pointing out what an idiot he is than anyone else.
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I'm an idiot? I'm not the one calling people I don't know crap about, idiots. The fact that you guys are STILL posting in this topic says something. You guys have no lives, that's why you're still posting in this topic. This no longer has anything to do with seduction, me, or girls, but this has to do with that the fact that you guys are immature, and have no lives. How do I know you're immature? That whole Butters joke. How do I know you have no lives? If you had lives, you wouldn't be posting useless crap in this topic.Said before, I'll say it again, if you don't like the topic, just don't post, you only make YOURSELF look dumber by posting useless crap and flaming me. Bigger question is, why do I care so much? You guys are the immature ones. You may get girls, but you're still immature. Wait, I'm not done, to add to that a majority of you are just ignorant, and have no right to be calling me dumb. How do I know you're ignorant? You make dumb assumptions, and act like you know me, when you don't. If you didn't "assume" in the first place there would be no problem.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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...And girls don't associate with me because I don't know how to talk to people? While that may be true, how would those girls know I don't know how to talk to people? They've never talked to me...
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This is so typical of girls. They are dumb shallow idiots. You are better than them.

Do give up. We can't know everything and do anything. We aren't gods we are humans. Giving up means letting it go, and when you let it go the life will bring positive surprizes. This doesn't mean stop getting out, just stop pressuring yourself for immediate results.
 
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I'm an idiot? I'm not the one calling people I don't know crap about, idiots. The fact that you guys are STILL posting in this topic says something. You guys have no lives, that's why you're still posting in this topic. This no longer has anything to do with seduction, me, or girls, but this has to do with that the fact that you guys are immature, and have no lives. How do I know you're immature? That whole Butters joke. How do I know you have no lives? If you had lives, you wouldn't be posting useless crap in this topic.Said before, I'll say it again, if you don't like the topic, just don't post, you only make YOURSELF look dumber by posting useless crap and flaming me. Bigger question is, why do I care so much? You guys are the immature ones. You may get girls, but you're still immature. Wait, I'm not done, to add to that a majority of you are just ignorant, and have no right to be calling me dumb. How do I know you're ignorant? You make dumb assumptions, and act like you know me, when you don't. If you didn't "assume" in the first place there would be no problem.
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Durr, I repeat myself a lot. Durr...
 
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Durr, I repeat myself a lot. Durr...
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Rather hypocritical of you to say that. For you just repeated yourself, by saying "I repeat myself". Maybe if you guys would get the f*cking point I wouldn't have to.

You guys don't even understand WHY I'm giving up girls. It's not because I can't approach them, or that I'm scared, it's just that there's no good place for me to approach girls right now. The only part I'm really nervous about is approaching, after that, it's smooth sailing.
 
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Rather hypocritical of you to say that. For you just repeated yourself, by saying "I repeat myself". Maybe if you guys would get the f*cking point I wouldn't have to.

You guys don't even understand WHY I'm giving up girls. It's not because I can't approach them, or that I'm scared, it's just that there's no good place for me to approach girls right now. The only part I'm really nervous about is approaching, after that, it's smooth sailing.
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Said the pot to the kettle.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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