"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Is it alright to just give up on girls?

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Oh god, this crap is still going. You guys never change, you still want to act like you know me, when you hardly know anything about me. Some of you are also just ignorant(Especially oakraiderz).
 
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MrConfidence said:
Oh god, this crap is still going. You guys never change, you still want to act like you know me, when you hardly know anything about me. Some of you are also just ignorant(Especially oakraiderz).
Oh God, you're repeating yourself again.
 

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You guys are some persistant people. Instead of just letting the topic die, you continue to revive it.
 

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You guys are some persistant people. Instead of just letting the topic die, you continue to revive it.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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"Is it alright to just give up on girls?"
No its NOT! Because we will beat the living daylights out of you if you do! Yeah we know where you live buddy! :rolleyes:
 

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MrConfidence said:
You guys are some persistant people. Instead of just letting the topic die, you continue to revive it.
Kinda like how you persistantly ignore people's advice. Isn't that funny?
 

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Freddy1 said:
"Is it alright to just give up on girls?"
No its NOT! Because we will beat the living daylights out of you if you do! Yeah we know where you live buddy! :rolleyes:
Eh, if I could find a place to approach chicks at the moment, then I'd approach them. Approaching chicks at school is just too trouble. Let's not say that I'm giving up on chicks, but I'm putting them on a temporary "haitus", probably until college, or whenever the hell I get a car.
 

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MrConfidence said:
Eh, if I could find a place to approach chicks at the moment, then I'd approach them. Approaching chicks at school is just too trouble. Let's not say that I'm giving up on chicks, but I'm putting them on a temporary "haitus", probably until college, or whenever the hell I get a car.
He'll never get girls then either. Fag. Too bad I'm still blocked.
 

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man look at wat u r saying.
U R A SENIOR DJ
you have the right mentality, just keep at it.
If u dont have time, just leave it man, wait till u got time, take a break and get on with your life for a while, but never give up.
Good luck fellow DJ
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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MrConfidence said:
Oh god, this crap is still going. You guys never change, you still want to act like you know me, when you hardly know anything about me. Some of you are also just ignorant(Especially oakraiderz).
Why does he always bring me up? Someone tell me, please.
 

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Shut up Butters.

LOL!! YES!!!!

look out for professor chaos though



High Five! (borat voice)

oh wow that was my 600th post...
eek..
ill stop for awhile
 

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Mr_rogers said:
I think you've been more consistant in pointing out what an idiot he is than anyone else.
I'm an idiot? I'm not the one calling people I don't know crap about, idiots. The fact that you guys are STILL posting in this topic says something. You guys have no lives, that's why you're still posting in this topic. This no longer has anything to do with seduction, me, or girls, but this has to do with that the fact that you guys are immature, and have no lives. How do I know you're immature? That whole Butters joke. How do I know you have no lives? If you had lives, you wouldn't be posting useless crap in this topic.Said before, I'll say it again, if you don't like the topic, just don't post, you only make YOURSELF look dumber by posting useless crap and flaming me. Bigger question is, why do I care so much? You guys are the immature ones. You may get girls, but you're still immature. Wait, I'm not done, to add to that a majority of you are just ignorant, and have no right to be calling me dumb. How do I know you're ignorant? You make dumb assumptions, and act like you know me, when you don't. If you didn't "assume" in the first place there would be no problem.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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MrConfidence said:
...And girls don't associate with me because I don't know how to talk to people? While that may be true, how would those girls know I don't know how to talk to people? They've never talked to me...
This is so typical of girls. They are dumb shallow idiots. You are better than them.

Do give up. We can't know everything and do anything. We aren't gods we are humans. Giving up means letting it go, and when you let it go the life will bring positive surprizes. This doesn't mean stop getting out, just stop pressuring yourself for immediate results.
 

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MrConfidence said:
I'm an idiot? I'm not the one calling people I don't know crap about, idiots. The fact that you guys are STILL posting in this topic says something. You guys have no lives, that's why you're still posting in this topic. This no longer has anything to do with seduction, me, or girls, but this has to do with that the fact that you guys are immature, and have no lives. How do I know you're immature? That whole Butters joke. How do I know you have no lives? If you had lives, you wouldn't be posting useless crap in this topic.Said before, I'll say it again, if you don't like the topic, just don't post, you only make YOURSELF look dumber by posting useless crap and flaming me. Bigger question is, why do I care so much? You guys are the immature ones. You may get girls, but you're still immature. Wait, I'm not done, to add to that a majority of you are just ignorant, and have no right to be calling me dumb. How do I know you're ignorant? You make dumb assumptions, and act like you know me, when you don't. If you didn't "assume" in the first place there would be no problem.
Durr, I repeat myself a lot. Durr...
 

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Durr, I repeat myself a lot. Durr...
Rather hypocritical of you to say that. For you just repeated yourself, by saying "I repeat myself". Maybe if you guys would get the f*cking point I wouldn't have to.

You guys don't even understand WHY I'm giving up girls. It's not because I can't approach them, or that I'm scared, it's just that there's no good place for me to approach girls right now. The only part I'm really nervous about is approaching, after that, it's smooth sailing.
 

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Rather hypocritical of you to say that. For you just repeated yourself, by saying "I repeat myself". Maybe if you guys would get the f*cking point I wouldn't have to.

You guys don't even understand WHY I'm giving up girls. It's not because I can't approach them, or that I'm scared, it's just that there's no good place for me to approach girls right now. The only part I'm really nervous about is approaching, after that, it's smooth sailing.
Said the pot to the kettle.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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