MrConfidence
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Wow, you guys must honestly have no lives.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
alright thats it, I am moving for the closing of this thread and your banning by the mods. You are annoying and a blight on this board.MrConfidence said:You know what's sad is that you guys don't have anything else to do than post useless post in this topic.
Whatever man. It's still sad that you care so much about what goes on on an internet board. And you call me a troll? Please, you guys have no right, NONE of you guys have posted anything relavent to the topic for the past 3 pages. Besides, who keeps reviving this topic after I post? YOU! You can always STOP posting, but you keep posting, because you know what? You love arguing, your a freaking drama queen. So I could name several of you who are worse trolls than me. It's a wonder immature people like you, who have nothing better to do, than spam peoples topics, have ever gotten p*ssy. Infact, I think if anyones dillusional, it's you. A mature person would STOP posting, or post something relavent, if he didn't like a topic, he wouldn't post. You're the opposite. Let's remember who started this whole string of off-topicness, the faggot who calls himself oakraiderz. In any case, I'm now ignoring all of you who feel like posting this irrelavent bullshit in my topic. Grow the fuck up you fucking haters.comic_relief said:alright thats it, I am moving for the closing of this thread and your banning by the mods. You are annoying and a blight on this board.
You ask for help but then tell them to basically STFU. Shut up, butters/troll. Your worst than skip2mylou.
comic_relief
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Yeah, stop hating on Mr. Confidence!MrConfidence said:Haha, yep, I was right. You guys just don't stop. I don't even see why you're posting, you're ignored, and if even if you WEREN'T ignored, I wouldn't pay attention to you. You guys can say anything about me that you want, compare me to Butters, I don't care, because in the end, you don't know me that well, and in the end, you're wrong. You guys aren't Don Juans, you're losers with nothing better to do than to flame people on forums.
The faggot oakraiderz huh? :nono: Faggot ehh? Arent you the one whos giving up on girls? Yea...whatd you do last night?? Band??? Im damn sure you didnt hook up with a 29 yr old and have an enjoyable night like i did, did you? I was helping you at first, but you dont listen. Youre a waste of a life. Get bent. Go play in traffic, butters...hahaha...fag. You hate me for some reason...sooo you should tell me why. Why my name is brought up and no one else? Enlighten me.MrConfidence said:Let's remember who started this whole string of off-topicness, the faggot who calls himself oakraiderz. In any case, I'm now ignoring all of you who feel like posting this irrelavent bullshit in my topic. Grow the fuck up you fucking haters.
You have a cute smile.MrConfidence said:What was that? Oh yeah, you're ignored. :crackup:
I did take 10 seconds out of my day to read that post, and it's the same bullcrap as all your other posts. It only shows how ignorant you are.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
r u gay?oakraiderz2 said:You have a cute smile.
Youre a retard. It was a joke genious. God some people are dumb.ChrizZ said:r u gay?
You mean you don´t like his smile?oakraiderz2 said:Youre a retard. It was a joke genious. God some people are dumb.
:yes:Capt.Jack Sparrow said:MOVIE QUOTE!!!
"You know how I know your gay? You just told me your not sleeping with women any more."
oakraiderz2 said:Your parents treat you like sh*t. They talk to you like youre incompetent, kinda the same way you behave on here. Youre 15 or 16, never had a real girlfriend, probably never kissed a girl. You say you can approach but who knows if thats the truth or some facade you try to portray on this site. You joined the wrestling team but youre most likely the worst wrestler. Youre in band yet you dont have very many friends. Girls dont associate with you because you dont know how to talk to people. You have a short temper and get mad when people point out the truth. For some reason your a ****y mofo when you cant even get ANY girl...why are you ****y? Because its a show for the website, sadly. Youre probably an only child. You dont have a drivers license nor are you getting one remotely around the day youre suppose to. Youre immature and lack a sense of understanding of the world. You feel as if the world owes you something. Youre bitter. You have the tools to change but you dont see the problem. People CONSTANTLY tell you the same advice yet you reject it. It 15 people agree on something...you might wanna look into it. If this isnt you...why dont you tell me who...MR CONFIDENCE AKA VIPER really is.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.