Is it all about.. Happiness??

[wudiez]

Happiness.. When were happy, we do everything smooth, and we can pretty much get away with anything.

We are so content with what we have, we dont give a crap about other things. WHen someone challenges us, were already so full with joy, we either just laugh it off, or see it as somethign very small..

And all the DJ qualities seem to flow naturally..

So the question is? What makes you naturally happy.

Or what are some things, to get you into a natural happy state.

Because if it's all about being awesome at body language and voice tone and all those other things.

That only comes from being natural? Cause woman can sense when your faking it. Hell not woman, i think everyone can sense that your faking it.

So What do we do to become naturally happy. And instill with in us, all the good qualities.

 

[Dukester]

I think thats a question only we can answer ourselves. there is nobody to tell us when or when we are not happy. Happiness comes from inside us.

For example, i used to not be happy, i was your standard AFC in almost everything, esp getting girls.

I began to read this forum, and it helped out in the girl aspect, but things still lacked in other parts of my life.

I looked at what wasnt making me happy, and i changed it. Do things that make you happy, stop thinking so pessimistic. I just got a new job, and I'm starting college soon, and I (now) focus on all the good things that this job and college have to offer.
My home life sux, (who's doesnt), but get over it. It's not gonna change till I move out, so I've accepted it.

Accept things that you cant change, change the things you can, and have wisdom to know the diff.

I say that quote to myself everytime i feel pessimistic, and it helps.

feel free to write me if you have any questions, and hope iv helped

 

[Omega]

Bob Marley. I'm serious too

 

[MichaelangelloB]

It's more about confidence. When you're confident you can do anything. When you're happy you're confident. When you're confident you're happy. see.

 

[Befuddled]

I totally agree with the first post. ive noticed this quite strongly as well. I've tried to figure it out...but the answer is different for everyone.

What makes me happy ?
friends i grew up with...just being around them.... i dont care about the impression im making on strangers(i dont care anyway) or be self conscious. it's the good times.
Surfing..... just being at the beach....going out in the morning for a couple of hours when i have the time. for the rest of the day i have a smile from ear to ear.

For some reason, as soon as i sence any sexual-tension with the girls around me, i tend to get self consious..... and worked up. i end u getting quiet.

Those are just a couple of things though.

Cheers.