"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Is It AFCish...?

NEWBIE101

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To tell a girl she looks nice. I'm not saying go overboard but maybe if a girl wears her hair down one day and it looks good. Is it AFCish to say "You're looking nice today with your hair down."
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Compliments are ok as long as they're genuine and not excessive.
 

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You can say it in a DJ way as well,

"Your looking a lot less ugly today" In a happy upbeat tone then smiling at the end.

Some compliments are ok, just don't do it excessively or if your going after the chick.
 

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Originally posted by Vincent
You can say it in a DJ way as well,

"Your looking a lot less ugly today" In a happy upbeat tone then smiling at the end.

lol, you gotta be careful saying that one, i know for myself I can intend myself to say things jokingly and the other person takes it the wrong way. I gotta work on my tone of voice :(
 

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Also if they get offended they have very low self esteem, so even if you compliment them, they won't care. They won't believe it themselves so nothing you can say will make them believe it.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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If your telling a joke like that. I always find it easyer to put on a big smile laugh instead of saying just kidding. Looks a lot better and lets them know your ****in wit them.
 
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instead of less uglier, how about a seldom "you look even more beautiful than the day before" and possibly adding a neg-hit afterwards with a confident smile....


But yeah, I had the misfortune of complimenting my last oneitis a lot, which got me 13 steps to nowhere.
 
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