"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Is it acceptable to cold approach girls outside when it's dark?

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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It is unpreferable...., if you are going to approach make sure you are nicely dressed you don't want them to think you are trying to mug them. I actually went up to a girl and she shoved her wallet in my face with like £200 in it saying "TAKE THE MONEY!!!"....i was tempted haha jk, but nah i just told her the deal we started flirting and then i left with her number instead (so u can even come out well in a situation like that).

But yeah i have got tons of numbers off the street at like 1-4 am, i just tell them "hi there i just wanted to talk to you and look to be honest i would rather not do it at this time, but i don't like to regret anything or make excuses regardless of the situation" ...then just change topic and start your convo. So basically what you are doing is you are emphasizing with her situation and then you are paying a indirect compliment saying that despite the situation i do not want to regret this. What is there not to like?


But like i said late night approaching should be a last option, but don't let anything stop you, where there is a will there is a way.
 
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