"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Is it acceptable to cold approach girls outside when it's dark?

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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It is unpreferable...., if you are going to approach make sure you are nicely dressed you don't want them to think you are trying to mug them. I actually went up to a girl and she shoved her wallet in my face with like £200 in it saying "TAKE THE MONEY!!!"....i was tempted haha jk, but nah i just told her the deal we started flirting and then i left with her number instead (so u can even come out well in a situation like that).

But yeah i have got tons of numbers off the street at like 1-4 am, i just tell them "hi there i just wanted to talk to you and look to be honest i would rather not do it at this time, but i don't like to regret anything or make excuses regardless of the situation" ...then just change topic and start your convo. So basically what you are doing is you are emphasizing with her situation and then you are paying a indirect compliment saying that despite the situation i do not want to regret this. What is there not to like?


But like i said late night approaching should be a last option, but don't let anything stop you, where there is a will there is a way.
 
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