It happened during the weeked, me and my friends were at a bar. There was a group of girls next to us, one of them was staring at me from time to time, i saw it from the corner of my eye. I didn't look her back since i didnt find her that atractive and plus, one of my friends has had a massive crush on her for years but she friendzoned him. Couple of hours later, she came to our table, she kept starring at me, when i looked her back, she started looking right and left awkwardly.. So is it a sign of interest, attention seeking or just awkwardness?
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Is it a sign of interest?
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You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
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Sign of interest.
Say hey if your friend is cool with it.
Say hey if your friend is cool with it.
TheException
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Youll never know since you didnt do anything about it. I dont like the term "IOI" or "Indicators of Interest". There is just so many gray areas, you can never 100% say a given female action(say making eye contact) = interest. If anything they should be called "Preluders to POTENTIAL Interest".
If you get anything considered to be an IOI....the only way you find out if it was or not is to APPROACH.
If you get anything considered to be an IOI....the only way you find out if it was or not is to APPROACH.
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I generally take girls looking at me for more than a glance or attempting to make eye contact as a sign of interest. That's your invitation to step to her. She will rarely do it herself. Girls tend to avoid eye contact with guys that they have zero interest in completely. So trust your gut man!