It happened during the weeked, me and my friends were at a bar. There was a group of girls next to us, one of them was staring at me from time to time, i saw it from the corner of my eye. I didn't look her back since i didnt find her that atractive and plus, one of my friends has had a massive crush on her for years but she friendzoned him. Couple of hours later, she came to our table, she kept starring at me, when i looked her back, she started looking right and left awkwardly.. So is it a sign of interest, attention seeking or just awkwardness?
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Is it a sign of interest?
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Skyline
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Sign of interest.
Say hey if your friend is cool with it.
Say hey if your friend is cool with it.
TheException
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Youll never know since you didnt do anything about it. I dont like the term "IOI" or "Indicators of Interest". There is just so many gray areas, you can never 100% say a given female action(say making eye contact) = interest. If anything they should be called "Preluders to POTENTIAL Interest".
If you get anything considered to be an IOI....the only way you find out if it was or not is to APPROACH.
If you get anything considered to be an IOI....the only way you find out if it was or not is to APPROACH.
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I generally take girls looking at me for more than a glance or attempting to make eye contact as a sign of interest. That's your invitation to step to her. She will rarely do it herself. Girls tend to avoid eye contact with guys that they have zero interest in completely. So trust your gut man!