It happened during the weeked, me and my friends were at a bar. There was a group of girls next to us, one of them was staring at me from time to time, i saw it from the corner of my eye. I didn't look her back since i didnt find her that atractive and plus, one of my friends has had a massive crush on her for years but she friendzoned him. Couple of hours later, she came to our table, she kept starring at me, when i looked her back, she started looking right and left awkwardly.. So is it a sign of interest, attention seeking or just awkwardness?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Is it a sign of interest?
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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
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Skyline
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Sign of interest.
Say hey if your friend is cool with it.
Say hey if your friend is cool with it.
TheException
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Youll never know since you didnt do anything about it. I dont like the term "IOI" or "Indicators of Interest". There is just so many gray areas, you can never 100% say a given female action(say making eye contact) = interest. If anything they should be called "Preluders to POTENTIAL Interest".
If you get anything considered to be an IOI....the only way you find out if it was or not is to APPROACH.
If you get anything considered to be an IOI....the only way you find out if it was or not is to APPROACH.
GS750
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I generally take girls looking at me for more than a glance or attempting to make eye contact as a sign of interest. That's your invitation to step to her. She will rarely do it herself. Girls tend to avoid eye contact with guys that they have zero interest in completely. So trust your gut man!