SeymourCake
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Well?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Is it a red flag if she mentions her ex-boyfriend during conversation?
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
jafyk
Master Don Juan
That would depend on the what she's saying about him. If she's saying how much he didn't do X, Y, Z for her in a negative way about him. That is a good sign. If she's saying very things about him and how she misses him it's a bad sign that she may not be over him yet. Initially when a girl is talking about her ex to you it's important that you listen because you can learn a lot. When you feel you've learned enough it's up to you to re-direct the conversation. When you take the lead like you should, you both talk about what you want to. Go read the Book of Pook in the DJ Bible and you'll learn more.
SeymourCake
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I read up to page 36 on book of pook. I should read more.jafyk said:
She said he was crazy, that's pretty much it.
abe0
Senior Don Juan
That does not sound like any red flags to me....maybe he was crazy.
Now....if you start f#cking her and she keeps mentioning his name.....now we got a problem. Abe
Now....if you start f#cking her and she keeps mentioning his name.....now we got a problem. Abe
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.