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Is it a red flag if she mentions her ex-boyfriend during conversation?

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Well?
 
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Need more details and context. Wouldn't be worried about one red flag anyway, it's only when they start to look like a game of minesweeper that you need to worry.
 
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That would depend on the what she's saying about him. If she's saying how much he didn't do X, Y, Z for her in a negative way about him. That is a good sign. If she's saying very things about him and how she misses him it's a bad sign that she may not be over him yet. Initially when a girl is talking about her ex to you it's important that you listen because you can learn a lot. When you feel you've learned enough it's up to you to re-direct the conversation. When you take the lead like you should, you both talk about what you want to. Go read the Book of Pook in the DJ Bible and you'll learn more.
 
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jafyk said:
That would depend on the what she's saying about him. If she's saying how much he didn't do X, Y, Z for her in a negative way about him. That is a good sign. If she's saying very things about him and how she misses him it's a bad sign that she may not be over him yet. Initially when a girl is talking about her ex to you it's important that you listen because you can learn a lot. When you feel you've learned enough it's up to you to re-direct the conversation. When you take the lead like you should, you both talk about what you want to. Go read the Book of Pook in the DJ Bible and you'll learn more.
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I read up to page 36 on book of pook. I should read more.

She said he was crazy, that's pretty much it.
 
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That does not sound like any red flags to me....maybe he was crazy.
Now....if you start f#cking her and she keeps mentioning his name.....now we got a problem. Abe
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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