SeymourCake
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Well?
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Is it a red flag if she mentions her ex-boyfriend during conversation?
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
jafyk
Master Don Juan
That would depend on the what she's saying about him. If she's saying how much he didn't do X, Y, Z for her in a negative way about him. That is a good sign. If she's saying very things about him and how she misses him it's a bad sign that she may not be over him yet. Initially when a girl is talking about her ex to you it's important that you listen because you can learn a lot. When you feel you've learned enough it's up to you to re-direct the conversation. When you take the lead like you should, you both talk about what you want to. Go read the Book of Pook in the DJ Bible and you'll learn more.
SeymourCake
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I read up to page 36 on book of pook. I should read more.jafyk said:
She said he was crazy, that's pretty much it.
abe0
Senior Don Juan
That does not sound like any red flags to me....maybe he was crazy.
Now....if you start f#cking her and she keeps mentioning his name.....now we got a problem. Abe
Now....if you start f#cking her and she keeps mentioning his name.....now we got a problem. Abe
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
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