"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Is it a lost cause?

GloriouslyInsane

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I'm dealing with this problem for a couple of weeks now,there are 3 girls HB7A, HB7B, HB6, that im seeing these days,they are close friends and i often end up going out with all of them.So my target is HB7A,and i naturally give most of my attention to HB6 while negging/cfing the 7A,now i think hb6 fell for me and i quickly bailed towards 7B still playing 7A though,no matter what i don't get a freaking IOI from this girl,at this point i think 7B is falling for me too,should i cash out or what? Damn me i can't isolate for sh!t :p
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Are you going out in a group with all 3 women and you? If so then you aren't dating any of them. Until you get a phone number and go out with one of them alone nothing datelike is ever going to happen.
 

mrRuckus

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GloriouslyInsane said:
I'm dealing with this problem for a couple of weeks now,there are 3 girls HB7A, HB7B, HB6, that im seeing these days,they are close friends and i often end up going out with all of them.So my target is HB7A,and i naturally give most of my attention to HB6 while negging/cfing the 7A,now i think hb6 fell for me and i quickly bailed towards 7B still playing 7A though,no matter what i don't get a freaking IOI from this girl,at this point i think 7B is falling for me too,should i cash out or what? Damn me i can't isolate for sh!t :p

Eat a booger in front of them and the one who stays around is the one for you.
 
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