"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Is it a lost cause?

GloriouslyInsane

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I'm dealing with this problem for a couple of weeks now,there are 3 girls HB7A, HB7B, HB6, that im seeing these days,they are close friends and i often end up going out with all of them.So my target is HB7A,and i naturally give most of my attention to HB6 while negging/cfing the 7A,now i think hb6 fell for me and i quickly bailed towards 7B still playing 7A though,no matter what i don't get a freaking IOI from this girl,at this point i think 7B is falling for me too,should i cash out or what? Damn me i can't isolate for sh!t :p
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Are you going out in a group with all 3 women and you? If so then you aren't dating any of them. Until you get a phone number and go out with one of them alone nothing datelike is ever going to happen.
 

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GloriouslyInsane said:
I'm dealing with this problem for a couple of weeks now,there are 3 girls HB7A, HB7B, HB6, that im seeing these days,they are close friends and i often end up going out with all of them.So my target is HB7A,and i naturally give most of my attention to HB6 while negging/cfing the 7A,now i think hb6 fell for me and i quickly bailed towards 7B still playing 7A though,no matter what i don't get a freaking IOI from this girl,at this point i think 7B is falling for me too,should i cash out or what? Damn me i can't isolate for sh!t :p

Eat a booger in front of them and the one who stays around is the one for you.
 
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