"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Is it a drunk thing with this girl???

lizardfloyd

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Well it starts off with this one girl who i've kinda sorta known for about a year. We usually always see each other at parties becuz my friends are friends with her friends, you know. She calls me up to tell me about parties. I never thought much about her becuz she's kind of a big flirt and a drunk on the weekends.

Lately we've been talkin a lot (when were drunk) and the other night she was flirtin hardcore with me and even pulled me aside and kissed me. i was pretty stunned being that i never really showed much interest in her and all and i didnt think she cared too much for me either. I flirted back too and rubbed on her a$$ a little while she had her arm around me. And the only thing i would ever want would be a ONS or a f.b. from her if she brought it up when she was flirtin with me. (shes a virgin and so am i).

Then the next night, she being drunk called my friends phone at 2a.m. looking for me but he didnt know where i was. She has my number but lost her phone that night. Then she somehow found a sober ride over to my apartment but she wasnt flirtin with me at all and she was having to babysit her drunk friend that she brung over.

Saw her at a Halloween party last night and she was bein real shady and sketchy. Didint say as much or show any interest in me as she usually would if she was drunk but she was sober.

So, whats the deal here? I dont know if its mixed feelings or she just targeted me to be her flirt for the week or what? Any input would be cool.

Oh yeah, i'd like to thank the guys here who've given a lot of confidence back into me since i've been here. I dont know what it is everywhere i've been goin girls have been lookin at me and only me and smiling and saying "hi" when i walk by them. I usually dont have time to talk since im in a rush to class or tryin to hurry up and buy something at a store.

I don't know if its because i walk confidently than others now who i see walkin with their heads down or what. I'm 100% different mentally and physically from what i used to be 2 years ago. But havin girls smile at me and acknowledge my existence has for sure changed me even though im no real DJ or brad pitt. Thanks again guys
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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You act disinterested/indiferent: She's attracted

She wins your interest by kissing: She doesn't want you anymore
 
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