Is it a bad thing that girls think I'm taken?

[tryst type]

I've noticed a steady pattern with the last three new girls I've hung out with.

They all presumed I had a gf, I have no idea why but it's pretty baffling to me.

What would make them think that, and is it a good or bad thing that they do?

 

[Warrior74]

I get that a lot. Usually for these reasons.

1. I'm so laid back and relaxed I must have someone else. I'm not overtly itching to get in their pants. (I'm not 'thirsty' as the kids say).

2. My game is so tight that they want me, and of course other women would want me so of course I have someone in my life. (That's a good sign).

3. I'm acting like guys with a girlfriend act around other women. Which is to not be too flirty and overt and sometimes too stiff or formal. (not good).

How are you acting with them and how are they responding? As long as they are still coming around deny it once, ignore it a second time and carry on. Maybe put a little more aggressiveness in your game at this point.

 

[tryst type]

1 and 2 are on point of my behavior around them. Mostly the first one, I've been told I'm too relaxed from the get go like it's a bad thing or something hah.

What I've been doing when it comes up is say something like "no way I'm married, don't tell her" then I kiss them

 

[BMX]

I get the opposite. I'll wear a ring on my finger and they ignore it.

 

[PeakIV]

girls thinking your with someone else is a good thing, it enhances your value.

Think of it like a child - no child wants to play with a toy if no other children are playing with it.
If another child is playing with a toy that's the toy they want to play with.

People always want what someone else has.

 

[Blackmm]

girls thinking your with someone else is a good thing, it enhances your value.

Think of it like a child - no child wants to play with a toy if no other children are playing with it.
If another child is playing with a toy that's the toy they want to play with.

People always want what someone else has.

Exactly. Women want what other women have.