Ringleader41
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Like you're with her at a party and she goes look at those two and starts making fun of them.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Is it a bad sign when a girl starts making fun of people making out/kissing
- Thread starter Ringleader41
- Start date
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Iceberg
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Yeah bro. It means she's banging other dudes, and she has the AIDS.
The only alpha move is to NEXT her.
The only alpha move is to NEXT her.
Ringleader41
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but aids turns me on
Mike32ct
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Yeah it's bad. It means one or more of the following
1. She's a prude who looks down on a couple having some fun. Or
2. She's single and envious. Or
3. She has a bf or is secretly hooking up on the side. She feels all high and mighty and "superior" to this couple that is in their honeymoon-ish "fool around in public" phase. She feels like she is "better" than them because her fooling around is more private. Or
4. She's really old lol. (See signature thread below.)
My guess is #3
1. She's a prude who looks down on a couple having some fun. Or
2. She's single and envious. Or
3. She has a bf or is secretly hooking up on the side. She feels all high and mighty and "superior" to this couple that is in their honeymoon-ish "fool around in public" phase. She feels like she is "better" than them because her fooling around is more private. Or
4. She's really old lol. (See signature thread below.)
My guess is #3
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Ringleader41
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That would be odd because this occurred while we were on a date