Ringleader41
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Like you're with her at a party and she goes look at those two and starts making fun of them.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Is it a bad sign when a girl starts making fun of people making out/kissing
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Yeah bro. It means she's banging other dudes, and she has the AIDS.
The only alpha move is to NEXT her.
The only alpha move is to NEXT her.
Ringleader41
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but aids turns me on
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Yeah it's bad. It means one or more of the following
1. She's a prude who looks down on a couple having some fun. Or
2. She's single and envious. Or
3. She has a bf or is secretly hooking up on the side. She feels all high and mighty and "superior" to this couple that is in their honeymoon-ish "fool around in public" phase. She feels like she is "better" than them because her fooling around is more private. Or
4. She's really old lol. (See signature thread below.)
My guess is #3
1. She's a prude who looks down on a couple having some fun. Or
2. She's single and envious. Or
3. She has a bf or is secretly hooking up on the side. She feels all high and mighty and "superior" to this couple that is in their honeymoon-ish "fool around in public" phase. She feels like she is "better" than them because her fooling around is more private. Or
4. She's really old lol. (See signature thread below.)
My guess is #3
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Ringleader41
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That would be odd because this occurred while we were on a date