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Is it a bad sign when a girl starts making fun of people making out/kissing

Ringleader41

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Like you're with her at a party and she goes look at those two and starts making fun of them.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Iceberg

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Yeah bro. It means she's banging other dudes, and she has the AIDS.

The only alpha move is to NEXT her.
 

Mike32ct

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Yeah it's bad. It means one or more of the following

1. She's a prude who looks down on a couple having some fun. Or

2. She's single and envious. Or

3. She has a bf or is secretly hooking up on the side. She feels all high and mighty and "superior" to this couple that is in their honeymoon-ish "fool around in public" phase. She feels like she is "better" than them because her fooling around is more private. Or

4. She's really old lol. (See signature thread below.)


My guess is #3
 

Blackmm

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Ask her if she can do better. Challenge her.
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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WorkingDJ

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You're thinking too much.
 
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