"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Is it a bad idea to contact someone through a social site?

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FutureDJMaster

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So I saw this former coworker of mine on this site and when she worked with me there was definitely some sexual tension between us. I never go her # is the sad part about it. Back then I wasn't an COMPLETE AFC but I didn't have the balls to do a lot of the stuff I would do now.

When she left the job I was away at school and after that we just lost contact. This was about 3-4 months ago. My question is though wouldn't it be kind of weird contacting her out of the blue after all this time? How should I go about doing this. :)
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Go ahead and contact her just don't put so much thought and effort into it. She either replies or she doesn't and that's it you move on.

Put your heart and effort into being able to talk to random women out in the streets which is what is going to help you become a DJ and change your life.
 
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