"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Is it a bad idea to contact someone through a social site?

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FutureDJMaster

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So I saw this former coworker of mine on this site and when she worked with me there was definitely some sexual tension between us. I never go her # is the sad part about it. Back then I wasn't an COMPLETE AFC but I didn't have the balls to do a lot of the stuff I would do now.

When she left the job I was away at school and after that we just lost contact. This was about 3-4 months ago. My question is though wouldn't it be kind of weird contacting her out of the blue after all this time? How should I go about doing this. :)
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Go ahead and contact her just don't put so much thought and effort into it. She either replies or she doesn't and that's it you move on.

Put your heart and effort into being able to talk to random women out in the streets which is what is going to help you become a DJ and change your life.
 
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