"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Is honesty the best policy for a DJ?

justjosh47

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But should we lie to girls about others girls that were not dating , If your seeing two to three girls at the same time but dont have GF statues with any of them but talk to all three regurly , should they know about each other or is it non of there buisnees ?
Or is it a good thing to be seen with alot of girls?
-Josh
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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squirrels

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If they don't ask, don't go volunteering that information. And unless you EXPECT them to find out about each other, I wouldn't volunteer any information, even if they DO ask. Think of some C&F way of changing the subject.

And it's never a bad idea to be SEEN with other girls...it shows how valuable you are to women in general. Just be careful how much you let the women SEE of each other. ;)
 

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lie is what i would do
if they catch you, you ever hear that song "it wasnt me"
 
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