aforabi
Don Juan
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- Apr 8, 2014
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today, as i was walking in the street, i saw a girl in her own world - walking slowly and checking out her text message on her phone - and i said, "hi, looks you're having fun..."
to which she said, "well, just sending text message to my friend..."
after a while, i asked her, "hey, i was going to play pool, would you like to join?"
she says, "na, i am busy tonite!"
and then, i ask ... "okay, then, give me your number!"
and then she becomes dissappointed and says, "well, so many guys come and ask for my number ... why do all guys have to flirt a girl?"
to which i replied, "well, if a guy wants to see you again, how is he supposed to do that?"
to which she said, "na, please no thankyou..." something like that ... obviously not interested girl ... and i just left her and approached other chicks ...
my question: is hitting on girl "bad?" a sign of desperation? if i see a girl i like, should not i supposed to walk up to her and talk to her and then ask for her number? is that flirting (taken in negative sense by some inexperienced chicks) ... am i being DESPERATE by approaching tons of girls and trying to set up a date ... because as a "true DON JUAN/ or PRINCE charming, I am supposed to be busy with many many women?"
thanks
to which she said, "well, just sending text message to my friend..."
after a while, i asked her, "hey, i was going to play pool, would you like to join?"
she says, "na, i am busy tonite!"
and then, i ask ... "okay, then, give me your number!"
and then she becomes dissappointed and says, "well, so many guys come and ask for my number ... why do all guys have to flirt a girl?"
to which i replied, "well, if a guy wants to see you again, how is he supposed to do that?"
to which she said, "na, please no thankyou..." something like that ... obviously not interested girl ... and i just left her and approached other chicks ...
my question: is hitting on girl "bad?" a sign of desperation? if i see a girl i like, should not i supposed to walk up to her and talk to her and then ask for her number? is that flirting (taken in negative sense by some inexperienced chicks) ... am i being DESPERATE by approaching tons of girls and trying to set up a date ... because as a "true DON JUAN/ or PRINCE charming, I am supposed to be busy with many many women?"
thanks