You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
yeah the kid sounds ghettoSpidah is probably black or wannabe black.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Haha they've already started: some mgtow video about "why women don't respect men"I'm just waiting for the YouTube clips to start showing up in his threads.
I think he did. He got emotional. The fact that he accused anyone who disagreed with him that they were being emotional when they clearly weren't is a sure indicator of projecting. He used the "charge of irascibility" constantly, something that women do a lot. Accuse you of being angry when you're not angry, then if you take the bait you may then get irritated at the accusation, put yourself on the defensive and voila.....the charge is now proven correct in front of everyone.poon king didnt have a temper problem
Yes.I used to take the high road and ignore all of it, but at this point I have subscribed to the philosophy that it's probably better off that these trolls are exposed to have their assh0les handed to them.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Still a work in progress. Being worked on though.good, now about that naughty ninja problem?
His ban?Guess what just got extended?
Yep.His ban?