Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
yeah the kid sounds ghettoSpidah is probably black or wannabe black.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Haha they've already started: some mgtow video about "why women don't respect men"I'm just waiting for the YouTube clips to start showing up in his threads.
I think he did. He got emotional. The fact that he accused anyone who disagreed with him that they were being emotional when they clearly weren't is a sure indicator of projecting. He used the "charge of irascibility" constantly, something that women do a lot. Accuse you of being angry when you're not angry, then if you take the bait you may then get irritated at the accusation, put yourself on the defensive and voila.....the charge is now proven correct in front of everyone.poon king didnt have a temper problem
Yes.I used to take the high road and ignore all of it, but at this point I have subscribed to the philosophy that it's probably better off that these trolls are exposed to have their assh0les handed to them.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Still a work in progress. Being worked on though.good, now about that naughty ninja problem?
His ban?Guess what just got extended?
Yep.His ban?