"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Is getting the girl drunk the only way to have a 1 night stand?

mr. kennedy

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During the last week, I brought 2 different girls back to my place 30 minutes into the date. Both times after the initial drink I proposed we hit my place to enjoy the view of the city from my balcony.

With girl #1, we made out, I played with her boobs but it didn't go further. She said she wasn't comfortable around me yet to have sex. She didn't drink anything at my place because she only drinks Johnnie Walkers and I didn't have any. She still stayed for close to 3 hours and I tried from time to time to escalate to something more than kissing and touching but it never worked.

With girl #2, she was driving back and didn't want to drink anything. We made out, I sucked on her nipples. But like girl #1, she refused to go further.

Is it possible to have a one nighter with girls that are still sober?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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skinnyguy

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lol maybe but I have had ONS only when the girl was drunk. I hooked up with this crazy girl a few months a go who rimmed my a**hole when we were in bed and that whole night I was drinking with her at a club in Hollywood
 

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Of course its possible. Its just not as likely.

For the record, Marijuana, Ecstasy, Coke and Molly can easily lead to a ONS too. Women like to use drugs as a way to avoid taking full ownership of their decisions. Especially decisions that are socially questionable. I've found that a surprising amount of women are into hard drugs. Often women you would never suspect too. Not your stereotypical druggies. A lot of rich upper class types love Coke.

One time I went clubbing with one of the women who were on "The Bachelor" TV show. She was into hard drugs too.
 

The Duke

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I've had two ONS's and neither involved much alcohol at all. But I'm pretty good at getting a girl to open up and building comfort which is key. You have to invest in women on a personal level and if you make that "connection" they become very compliant.

An old guy once said the difference between rape and making love is......salesmanship. And I suspect thats why you didn't close the deal.
 

thatfeel

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Of course its possible. Its just not as likely.

For the record, Marijuana, Ecstasy, Coke and Molly can easily lead to a ONS too. Women like to use drugs as a way to avoid taking full ownership of their decisions. Especially decisions that are socially questionable. I've found that a surprising amount of women are into hard drugs. Often women you would never suspect too. Not your stereotypical druggies. A lot of rich upper class types love Coke.

One time I went clubbing with one of the women who were on "The Bachelor" TV show. She was into hard drugs too.
Yep, this couldn't be anymore true. Very attractive women get attention from all sorts of upper class men that tend to have connections that can source hard drugs. Very strange stuff, but whatever.

Lol I have to say though, I know a woman who used to use crystal meth. I asked her if she ended up fvcking or in any orgies, she said the last thing she wanted to do when under the influence of those drugs is fvck cause it's just such a 'surreal' experience. I honestly don't know if I believe her for a second. The men that attractive women are getting crystal meth are no doubt attractive as well and likely fvcking them. Just my hunch really.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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