"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Is getting the girl drunk the only way to have a 1 night stand?

mr. kennedy

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During the last week, I brought 2 different girls back to my place 30 minutes into the date. Both times after the initial drink I proposed we hit my place to enjoy the view of the city from my balcony.

With girl #1, we made out, I played with her boobs but it didn't go further. She said she wasn't comfortable around me yet to have sex. She didn't drink anything at my place because she only drinks Johnnie Walkers and I didn't have any. She still stayed for close to 3 hours and I tried from time to time to escalate to something more than kissing and touching but it never worked.

With girl #2, she was driving back and didn't want to drink anything. We made out, I sucked on her nipples. But like girl #1, she refused to go further.

Is it possible to have a one nighter with girls that are still sober?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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skinnyguy

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lol maybe but I have had ONS only when the girl was drunk. I hooked up with this crazy girl a few months a go who rimmed my a**hole when we were in bed and that whole night I was drinking with her at a club in Hollywood
 

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Of course its possible. Its just not as likely.

For the record, Marijuana, Ecstasy, Coke and Molly can easily lead to a ONS too. Women like to use drugs as a way to avoid taking full ownership of their decisions. Especially decisions that are socially questionable. I've found that a surprising amount of women are into hard drugs. Often women you would never suspect too. Not your stereotypical druggies. A lot of rich upper class types love Coke.

One time I went clubbing with one of the women who were on "The Bachelor" TV show. She was into hard drugs too.
 

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I've had two ONS's and neither involved much alcohol at all. But I'm pretty good at getting a girl to open up and building comfort which is key. You have to invest in women on a personal level and if you make that "connection" they become very compliant.

An old guy once said the difference between rape and making love is......salesmanship. And I suspect thats why you didn't close the deal.
 

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Of course its possible. Its just not as likely.

For the record, Marijuana, Ecstasy, Coke and Molly can easily lead to a ONS too. Women like to use drugs as a way to avoid taking full ownership of their decisions. Especially decisions that are socially questionable. I've found that a surprising amount of women are into hard drugs. Often women you would never suspect too. Not your stereotypical druggies. A lot of rich upper class types love Coke.

One time I went clubbing with one of the women who were on "The Bachelor" TV show. She was into hard drugs too.
Yep, this couldn't be anymore true. Very attractive women get attention from all sorts of upper class men that tend to have connections that can source hard drugs. Very strange stuff, but whatever.

Lol I have to say though, I know a woman who used to use crystal meth. I asked her if she ended up fvcking or in any orgies, she said the last thing she wanted to do when under the influence of those drugs is fvck cause it's just such a 'surreal' experience. I honestly don't know if I believe her for a second. The men that attractive women are getting crystal meth are no doubt attractive as well and likely fvcking them. Just my hunch really.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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