"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Is getting the girl drunk the only way to have a 1 night stand?

mr. kennedy

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During the last week, I brought 2 different girls back to my place 30 minutes into the date. Both times after the initial drink I proposed we hit my place to enjoy the view of the city from my balcony.

With girl #1, we made out, I played with her boobs but it didn't go further. She said she wasn't comfortable around me yet to have sex. She didn't drink anything at my place because she only drinks Johnnie Walkers and I didn't have any. She still stayed for close to 3 hours and I tried from time to time to escalate to something more than kissing and touching but it never worked.

With girl #2, she was driving back and didn't want to drink anything. We made out, I sucked on her nipples. But like girl #1, she refused to go further.

Is it possible to have a one nighter with girls that are still sober?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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skinnyguy

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lol maybe but I have had ONS only when the girl was drunk. I hooked up with this crazy girl a few months a go who rimmed my a**hole when we were in bed and that whole night I was drinking with her at a club in Hollywood
 

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Of course its possible. Its just not as likely.

For the record, Marijuana, Ecstasy, Coke and Molly can easily lead to a ONS too. Women like to use drugs as a way to avoid taking full ownership of their decisions. Especially decisions that are socially questionable. I've found that a surprising amount of women are into hard drugs. Often women you would never suspect too. Not your stereotypical druggies. A lot of rich upper class types love Coke.

One time I went clubbing with one of the women who were on "The Bachelor" TV show. She was into hard drugs too.
 

The Duke

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I've had two ONS's and neither involved much alcohol at all. But I'm pretty good at getting a girl to open up and building comfort which is key. You have to invest in women on a personal level and if you make that "connection" they become very compliant.

An old guy once said the difference between rape and making love is......salesmanship. And I suspect thats why you didn't close the deal.
 

thatfeel

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Of course its possible. Its just not as likely.

For the record, Marijuana, Ecstasy, Coke and Molly can easily lead to a ONS too. Women like to use drugs as a way to avoid taking full ownership of their decisions. Especially decisions that are socially questionable. I've found that a surprising amount of women are into hard drugs. Often women you would never suspect too. Not your stereotypical druggies. A lot of rich upper class types love Coke.

One time I went clubbing with one of the women who were on "The Bachelor" TV show. She was into hard drugs too.
Yep, this couldn't be anymore true. Very attractive women get attention from all sorts of upper class men that tend to have connections that can source hard drugs. Very strange stuff, but whatever.

Lol I have to say though, I know a woman who used to use crystal meth. I asked her if she ended up fvcking or in any orgies, she said the last thing she wanted to do when under the influence of those drugs is fvck cause it's just such a 'surreal' experience. I honestly don't know if I believe her for a second. The men that attractive women are getting crystal meth are no doubt attractive as well and likely fvcking them. Just my hunch really.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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