"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Is getting a lot of women (men) worth it all?

PeasantPlayer

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Asking because.....isn't there so much more to life then just fitting in to get married or gaming chicks....why are we so obsessed with getting ***** or being impressionable to women? There is so much more to do then explore and in this short life, I think humans have to shoot for higher goals....people are content with being average and content, its down right sickening, forget women...do something you never did before, fight your fears, explore....learn....**** women they will always be there, if they don't like me for who I am right now....**** them and the same goes for women who are pursing men. Tired of this culture of finding the right one, settling down....all that tells me is that you are a boring person, discover yourself....make mistakes, be the better you.

Is all it all worth it? Marriage, gaming women (men), impressing people? Is that the best thing you can accomplish in life?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Who gives a sh*t really? In however many weeks, months or years you're going to be dead and nothing will really matter. So do what brings you a slight bit of happiness... women.. or something else. Doesn't really matter.
 

Sino Zane

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Good point, sure.

"Why do you embody such a fervent need to be desired by women?" This is a fair question to ask anyone who spends a lot of time gaming easy, vapid women.
 

Teddy_Beer

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Eh...In my opinion, too much of something equals not enough of it.

Not enough women = frustration and masturbation

Too many women = heap of trouble

The essential thing is to act in ways that make you HAPPY!!!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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PeasantPlayer said:
Asking because.....isn't there so much more to life then just fitting in to get married or gaming chicks....why are we so obsessed with getting ***** or being impressionable to women? There is so much more to do then explore and in this short life, I think humans have to shoot for higher goals....people are content with being average and content, its down right sickening, forget women...do something you never did before, fight your fears, explore....learn....**** women they will always be there, if they don't like me for who I am right now....**** them and the same goes for women who are pursing men. Tired of this culture of finding the right one, settling down....all that tells me is that you are a boring person, discover yourself....make mistakes, be the better you.

Is all it all worth it? Marriage, gaming women (men), impressing people? Is that the best thing you can accomplish in life?
I believe I heard this phrase here on SS when I first joined back in 06.

"Build the perfect man, and the perfect woman will come"

That might be good for you to chew on. The best thing you can accomplish in life is being the man you want to be. Then you won't have to game/chase women, they will chase you.

Wish I could remember who said that line, but I have repeated it to others over the years and it makes perfect sense.

As for impressing people, forget about it.. Just impress yourself.
 
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